I’ve had numerous people get mad at me for saying this, two got particularly ugly, but I’m saying it anyways. I absolutely hate how anybody who doesn’t fit gender norms gets labeled as gay or lesbian. Even by gay people. A persons interests and personality do not determine their sexuality. This is an important fact that often gets ignored. It really makes me mad when gay people do this ngl, more so than straight people, mainly because it reinforces the very stereotypes they claim to have spent centuries fighting and sends a confusing message to heterosexual people. It’s doing far more harm to the community than good. You can do what you want.